My wife has put on weight and I'm no longer attracted to her. What should I do? | Leading questions

It's one thing to struggle with finding your partner attractive, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. It's another to feel contempt for them I'm in my early 50s and am starting to find my wife not sexually attractive any more. Over the years she has gradually put on weight to the point she now weighs more than me; I'm 6ft and normal weight for an athletic, active man. I've got mixed, conflicted feelings about it. On a physical basis I don't like it, but she's now started walking with a ...